Marilyn Monroe once said, "A sex symbol becomes a thing. I just hate to be a thing"
When girls become a "sex symbol" in a guy's mind, they become things. A man will do anything to a "thing" and justify it because it is a "thing" and not a human, or a woman. People view themselves as "things" too, which removes responsibility from themselves. Porn is a prime example of dehumanization, plus it is addictive. I'm no scientist, but I see it as similar to smoking a cigarette. First, it calms the person down, then it grows on them and they just have to have that thing there to hold and stick in their mouth. Porn doesn't calm so much as excite, and after a while, you have to look farther and farther to find new things for your mind to grab on to. It becomes a never-ending quest for more and worse.
Is there a cure? Some say yes, I say no. It will always stick with you. You can hide it behind walls or you can be honest about it, but what you have seen and done will forever stick with you.
This world needs a metric freak-ton of God right about now. *sigh*
J~S
